"I started a more holistic approach to life about four or five years before I found My Family Birth Center. My family was already on a path of choosing natural, organic options, so when we decided to get pregnant, choosing a birth center felt like the natural decision." "The first thing that drew me in was the aesthetic of the birth center. It’s beautiful, with big tubs, bright lighting, and a cozy atmosphere. It felt like home, but also like a clean, safe space to give birth. Touring the facility and meeting Loretta really sealed the deal. She has such a calming presence, and talking with her made me feel comfortable and at peace with our decision."
Postpartum care was amazing. I’ve heard friends say they felt trapped in the hospital after birth, with constant monitoring when all they wanted was to go home. It was such a relief to give birth here and then head home to our own bed, where the midwives came to us for follow-ups. That was one of the best parts.
My recovery was challenging, though. I had a long labor — 27 hours, plus 24 hours of pre-labor — so I was exhausted. I’ve heard from others that recovery is easier after a home or birth center birth compared to the hospital because you aren’t waiting for medications to leave your system. I didn’t have that comparison, but I definitely felt like I got hit by a bus after my birth. It took me about four days to feel like I could stand, shower, and make breakfast without feeling like I’d pass out. But through all of that, the women here supported me.I never felt scared, rushed, or alone. They made me feel comfortable, empowered, and capable.
For me, the idea of being in a hospital was more stressful and concerning than being in a cozy, home-like environment. The birth center felt more hands-off, natural, and relaxed — which was exactly what I needed. I think it’s important for every woman to look inside herself and think about what feels right for her and her family.
If you have questions or concerns, talk to the midwives. They answered all of my questions and made me feel really comfortable, even sharing stats about how often women at the birth center need to transfer to a hospital. I researched a lot — reading books, listening to podcasts, and hearing other women’s birth stories. Knowing how many women choose this route empowered me to know that I could, too.
I’m so glad we made this choice. It was the right fit for us, and I wouldn’t change a thing.